The 9 Dating Conversation Tips
Repeat. This-is-not-an-interview!It's perfectly fine to ask questions. Just don't use questions as your only conversation technique.
Do ask questions, but alternate between using questions and making statements to engage your date. You will notice that this is what friends do when having a conversation.Example: Question: "what do you do for a living?" That same question in statement form: "I bet you're a nurse" Question: "How many brothers and sisters do you have?" That same question in statement form: "I'm guessing you are not an only child."3. Ask questions that you would like to answer yourself (to demonstrate cool things about yourself to your date).(I think this is my favorite of all the dating conversation tips)The purpose is simple. People often ask you the same question you just asked.Example: Question: "What's the most fun thing you've done in the last week?" Her: "Well, I went out on Friday night with friends, what about you?" You: "This sounds crazy, but I go to a baseball game with friends and nearly got caught!"This is a dating conversation tip that needs to be used sparingly. If it is used too much it may come across as bragging.4. Learn to tell stories.Everyone has interesting stories from their lives. "Go First!"If your date is being really quiet and not opening up, you can answer the question that you just asked first.
Sounds crazy, right?It's the simple concept of reciprocity. If you tell someone about your car first, they are more likely to tell you about their car.Example You: "What do you do when you're not going on dates with cute guys like me?" Her: "I'm not sure"Uh oh!...... luckily we remember 'Go First!' You: "because I like to have fun with my friends and go out to clubbing on the weekends but I also really like chilling and watching DVDs." Your date will then be more likely to contribute to the conversation9. You don't need to solve all her problems.Only for the guys. Sorry girls!This is where a lot of guys screw up.She might start telling you about how she got really angry at her friend and doesn't know how to patch it up.Or how she hates her parents because they are always trying to get her to go on a date with a neighbor.As guys, we think like this...There is a problem-----> We need to solve itGirls are different. A lot of the time, they just need someone to tell their problem to and don't actually want your advice. They just want someone to listen.Girls think like thisThere is a problem-----> I just need someone to listen. I don't care if the problem gets solved.Does this mean, 'I should become a girls emotional blanket'?HELL NO!Just keep in mind that a girl doesn't always want her problems solved, often she just wants to get them off her chest.These dating conversation tips were gathered from numerous good AND bad conversations with girls.
Why not give it a go? After all you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain. Impotencia Sexual